
My love of food and my love of writing have long been overlooked!
I graduated college. now what should i do?

Chris likes to find random videos online and play them for me to try and make me smile. I am not very good at navigating you tube and Chris has much more fun finding the best videos than I do.
He played this one for me and I can’t get the song out of my head!
On the poll, no one voted for chocolate cake. I was surprised since I always thought people loved chocolate cake. I am not a big cake fan, or really a very big fan of sweet foods altogether, a savory dish is more my style of comfort food. I could not stop thinking about it though, is chocolate cake no longer a comfort food? I decided to turn to the queen of comfort, Mama Deen.
I chose to make Paula Deen’s Mississippi Mud Cake. I don’t normally bake and the idea of exact measurements was frightening. After a late night trip to the store, and then sending Chris for one more ingredient, I finally managed to concoct the extreme, rich, sweet comforting cake. If you don’t find chocolate cake comforting, you have to try this recipe.
Recipe courtesy of Miss Paula Deen
Serves: 12 to 16 servings
Ingredients:
2 cups sugar
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 stick unsalted butter
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1/2 cup cocoa
1/4 cup water
2 eggs
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 cup buttermilk
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1 bag miniature marshmallows
Icing:
1 stick unsalted butter, softened
3 tablespoons cocoa
6 tablespoons milk
1 (1-pound) box confectioners' sugar
1 cup chopped pecans or walnuts
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Directions:
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Grease and flour a 13 by 9-inch baking pan.
Combine the sugar, salt, and flour in a large mixing bowl. Bring the butter, oil, cocoa, and 1/4 cup water to a boil in a saucepan. Add to the flour mixture.
Beat together the eggs, baking soda, buttermilk, and vanilla. Add to the chocolate mixture, mix well, and pour into the prepared pan. Bake for 30 minutes.
While the cake is baking, make the icing by melting the butter in the cocoa and milk over low heat. Bring the mixture to a boil, then remove from the heat. Stir in the confectioners' sugar. Slowly mix in the nuts and the vanilla. Take the cake from the oven, and when it cools a bit cover it with miniature marshmallows. Pour the warm icing over the cake and the marshmallows. Cool the cake before serving.
Here is the cake portion in the oven, without a mixer I was nervous about the lumps you see in the batter.

As I am planning the wedding many things strike me but today; cakes. Why do we have cakes at weddings?
It seems to me that the protestant wedding is the most commercialized and lacking in true meaning. I look at Indian weddings where it is truly a celebration. The Jewish custom of the chuppah or breaking the glass. I am a little jealous. Chris and I have chosen a non-traditional wedding because the traditions seem empty.
Cake is one of those things for me, it’s tradition, but why?
This is what I found out:
The breaking of the cake or loaf of bread by the groom over the bride’s head symbolizing the breaking of her virginity and his dominance over her. (Absolutely not!)
It could have been a stack of sweet buns the couple tried to kiss over, and if they could it meant lots of children. (Eek! Not doing that one.)
Then there is the Bride Pie, which could simply have been a meat pie with a glass ring baked inside that single ladies would try to find to symbolize the next one getting married. (This one at least recognizes the bride is the center of the event but meat pies aren’t our thing)
Then the plum cake, which would have been literally sugar with icing, is an option but the rich simply used these to show off to their guests since sugar was so expensive. (Not the kind of meaningful tradition I was looking for)
My search didn’t really come up with anything I want to do at my wedding.

I know my mom is a little disappointed. She has saved a small green figurine from her wedding cake; she had two of them hidden behind a pillar or something. She has put this figurine on every cake I have ever eaten. She calls him “the little green man” and she was certain he would go on my wedding cake. Besides that I am sure this figurine is full of lead and has poisoned every birthday cake of my life, he has not stood the test of time. He is a little faded and beat up. I want the little green man to make an appearance at my wedding festivities but I don’t want a cake. Personally, I don’t even really like eating cake.
I came up with a solution!
Freed’s Bakery in Las Vegas sells cupcakes. Bachelorette themed cupcakes. Now, I don’t think I can post the link because there is a waiver button about being over 18 to see the picture... If you dare check out what the little green man can stand behind now! It's a far cry from my 8 year old barbie cake.
the same thing we ordered at Pat’s. We grabbed a table covered in photos of famous people and stealthily unwrapped the Pat’s sub so no one at Geno’s could see. 


I desperately wanted Chris to have MD crab while we were in town. As we walked into G&M we were greeted by a newly renovated beautiful restaurant. The mix of older couples, young businessmen and chatty women told us that their food had to be good enough for all the different needs. We were excited. We were seated on the second floor which was only tables for two. There were flat screens everywhere but it wasn’t obnoxious and loud like a sports bar.
I haven't had a change to blog about all the amazing foodie experiences I had in Maryland, Pannsylvania, and New York because it has been the most exhausting trip. I needed a few days to rest when I got back.
We arrived on Saturday morning after a long ride on the train. It was delayed at least an hour! I was excited to spend some time with Chris alone before his friends Andrew and Melanie arrived to hang out with us. Chris was acting so weird and I was getting upset because our whole trip had been so busy we hadn't had muh time to just be together. I wanted him to be happy that we had some time alone but he seemed so stressed out. We wandered around NY and Chris kept texting Andrew. I was sad he didn't want to talk to me. When we met up with his friends he seemed to get a little happier so when they all insisted that we go to the Empire State Building immediately I just went along with it.
and Melanie were ready to move on to the next event but I was so shaken I started crying at the bottom of the building.Good Morning. Its bright and early and I am at the airport. Gate 123, as you can see. The airport is an odd place. I always feel as if I am walking down a runway when I walk by all the gates of people staring at the walkway. And I hate carrying my carry on, but that’s another thing altogether.
Besides that though there are many odd things to do with food here. It is 9 in the morning and yet the little bar behind me is hoppin. Personally I love to have a nice strong beverage before I fly, it helps me sleep on the plane but I just can’t justify an $11 martini at this hour. I’ll have to stick with my other addition, iced coffee.

is filled with tiny dolly made from scraps of fabric. The woman was a semstress, I think, and she used the remains of fabric to make dolls for little sister. You can feel the love she put into each of those dolls when you walk into the room, it's amazing. So doing nothing is kind of fun...
I saw my cousin Harper's school play.
I cleaned the bathroom.
I had breakfast with my friend.
I went to the Star Trek movie.
I hung out with my parents at Margaritaville.
I watched the magic actually win at OBoys.
I got to go to Burtons.
I organized my magazines.
I bought Chris a present.
I used my new present from Chris.
I can actually drink a cup of coffee in the morning before it gets cold.
I am trying to train uber, it is going well.
I got my things from my family's house and unpacked them into my new house.
I bought artwork for the walls.
I have written in my journal.
I did some research on local gyms.
I walked to the greek restaurant on the corner.
I ate at Brian's, which is also in walking distance.
I rode my bike semi-successfully.
I went to Cypress Gardens, which was lame.
I went to Summit.
I ate some skittles, which I love.
I took Chris lunch a bunch of times.
I slept past 11 one day.
I went grocery shopping.
I beat Chris at Wii bowling.
I am trying not to kill my plant.
Still to do:
figure out what kind of plant I have.
re-work my budget and see if I can afford the gym I liked.
eat more skittles.
make crab soup.